I was born into a plan.
When I was five, I started kindergarten. So did just about every five-year-old in America. It was part of the plan.
I continued to follow the plan as I grew older. When I was 11, I started middle school. At 13, I celebrated my Bat Mitzvah. This was all according to the plan.
Despite changing schools at grades five, seven, and ten, I was still on the plan. I graduated from high school when I was 18. This was a highlight of the plan.
While some plans stop after high school, the plan I was born into included college. This summer, I will finish my college degree.
The plan dictated my full-time job from age five through twenty-two: school. It's what was expected, and it's what I did. But, like the Mayan calendar, the plan will soon abruptly stop. Specific expectations end.
My family does not have a trade into which each child is expected to enter. There is not a city in which the majority of the family lives.
The plan ends here. While it's expected that I will make a living and support myself, there is not a specific plan like there was through age 22. From now on, it's uncharted territory.
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